Month: January 2019

Lead a life of your own design, on your own terms.  Not one that others or the environment have scripted for you.
~ Tony Robbins ~

Picture this. — (Yeah, just starting and already sounding like Sophia from Golden Girls.)

It’s late 2009, I am in Florida with my recently turned ten-year-old daughter.  It’s early morning, just when the sun is rising, mostly everything around me is still deep in slumber.  I am alone on a third-floor balcony gazing at the beautiful emerald Gulf Coast waters.

And all I can think about at that moment is, “What the heck am I supposed to do now?” Continue reading “Designing Your Life … Just a Dream?”

People are not lazy. They simply have impotent goals … that is, goals that do not inspire them.
~ Tony Robbins ~

Sometime ago I spoke with a friend who was a very successful businessman. At some point I asked, “What drove you to be successful? Was it the money? Traveling around the world? What?” He momentarily looked stern and contemplatively; then he smiled and answered, “I didn’t want to displease dad!” That was his motivation. That was what floats HIS boat! Amazing, isn’t it, what motivates us.

Consider for a moment: What drives you to do what you do? What is your motivation? What floats your boat? Continue reading “Whatever Floats Your Boat”

More important than the quest for certainty is the quest for clarity.
~ Francois Gautier ~

Getting clear is not a new concept. In fact, nearly every “step by step” program starts with the words, GET CLEAR or something similar.

I include the concept of clarity in every program I have written since I started coaching because I so strongly believe in its power to transform.

Before you start setting goals, you need to get very clear about where you want to end up. Where do you want this goal to take you?

This process in called setting an intention. Continue reading “Clarity is E V E R Y T H I N G ! ! !”