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People are not lazy. They simply have impotent goals … that is, goals that do not inspire them.
~ Tony Robbins ~

Sometime ago I spoke with a friend who was a very successful businessman. At some point I asked, “What drove you to be successful? Was it the money? Traveling around the world? What?” He momentarily looked stern and contemplatively; then he smiled and answered, “I didn’t want to displease dad!” That was his motivation. That was what floats HIS boat! Amazing, isn’t it, what motivates us.

Consider for a moment: What drives you to do what you do? What is your motivation? What floats your boat? Continue reading “Whatever Floats Your Boat”

More important than the quest for certainty is the quest for clarity.
~ Francois Gautier ~

Getting clear is not a new concept. In fact, nearly every “step by step” program starts with the words, GET CLEAR or something similar.

I include the concept of clarity in every program I have written since I started coaching because I so strongly believe in its power to transform.

Before you start setting goals, you need to get very clear about where you want to end up. Where do you want this goal to take you?

This process in called setting an intention. Continue reading “Clarity is E V E R Y T H I N G ! ! !”

The one who asks questions doesn’t lose his way.
~ African Proverb ~

More than likely, you grew up thinking if you do the right things (went on a diet), you would have what you desired (a body weighing 120 pounds) and you would be the person you dreamed you’d become: (healthy, thin, happy, fun, loving, self-confident, empowered, etc). Continue reading “Create a Paradigm Shift by Asking Questions”